Prepare for outrage, because that’s the unabashed reason behind this “guest post.” Actually, it’s a hybrid, because I’ll be adding plenty of follow up after her part of it. Sadie sue Saunders is a longtime reader, longtime supporter, and was actually the subject of a couple of other blog posts—one of which was included in version 2.0 of my book. See here, and here.
Sadie sue emailed me with some info the other day and I immediately replied: “Make it a guest post and I’ll toss it up.” She polished it, but kept it in the form of a letter to me. Then she emailed me some other stuff you are not going to believe (wait until the end of the post). …I’m also going to tell you single guys that Sadie sue is a single mom of three beautiful girls in the midwest and is looking for a suitable “caveman.” If I were single and 30s-40s-ish, I’d figure out how to get an email out to her and strike up a friendly conversation leading to friendship. Just sayin’. She told me it was OK to mention that when I asked if I could.
Thanks for allowing me to rant about the new, despicable Michelle-Obama-inspired crime against our children. It is called the “improved” school lunch program. You can see the guidelines recipe for starving our children here. I am not nearly as articulate as the former teacher who wrote this very well-researched article, but I am going to give it a shot anyway and here is a quote from the other post so you know it’s worth looking at:
As a biologist and someone who taught anatomy and physiology as a part time job, I’m appalled. Apparently dietitians no longer take anatomy courses because the first thing you would learn about the nervous system and the brain in MY three credit college class is that the brain is fueled by protein and fat. And the USDA has all but eliminated protein and fat from the school lunch menu.
We cave people know a bit about portion sizes, but to illustrate the utter stupidity of the school lunch snack program, I would like to point out that for my daughters, the meat portion sizes equate to 1/4 of a hot dog, 3/4 cup of lettuce, and 1/2 cup of some canned HFCS drenched fruit and a carton of skim milk. That’s it. Nothing else… W.T.F.??? Oh, and breakfast may not have any protein at all. None; as in nada, zero, zip zilch…Elvis has left the building and he took Common Sense and all the bacon and eggs with him. This isn’t about my kids; it’s about everyone’s kids. This so diabolical that it seems like the goal is to stunt people’s growth and add to keeping them dumbed down. Like a bunch of evil geniuses sat around asking themselves, “How can we keep everyone weak and stupid?” None of us can really concentrate and learn while we are starving, not that it’s a scientific opinion, but that’s how it works with the little humans at my house and I am far too lazy and pissed off to find any of the gazillion scientific studies that prove I’m right.
I used to pack the girls lunches about half the time, but now it will have to be every single day, and no, I don’t have a money tree in the back yard. Oh yes, I will bitch about the extra cost and the pain in the ass of getting up extra early to make breakfast and pack lunches and I will need to clock a little OT here and there to cover the expense, but ultimately, I can afford this. Sadly, many families count on their kids getting that free meal, so what the hell are they supposed to do? I’m all for thinning the herd, but the slow, weak and stupid generally do a great job of taking themselves out of the equation and I don’t think that it’s necessary to intentionally starve innocent children.
I have talked to several parents about the new “higher” supposedly “healthier” standards and, needless to say, even the non-paleo folks (if they are able to afford it) are packing their kids’ lunches from now on—including the head chef for our district—who is also fully prepared to resign over this outrage. On top of the portion sizes the schools are now forbidden from making anything from scratch. Nevermind that the school was never going to serve up meatza—but now they have to use highly processed nutrient-free frozen crap instead of allowing our talented food service folks to make the pizza dough and sauce themselves. (Seriously, I refer to the head lunch dude as “chef” because he and Mrs. Chef own the local bakery and they cater big events. It’s not paleo, but it is delicious!)
Imagine how it would feel to be a growing child being given 1/2 of a hotdog as your “main” entree. Oh, wait, did I mention that meat is no longer the main dish? The school must now serve the veggie on the big part of the lunch tray. Meat, if you can even call a hotdog or canned ham-like-meat-flavored-product “meat,” is now a side dish and there is no requirement that meat be served at each meal. In contrast to the government dietician approved wisdom, this morning, the girls ate a big pile of bacon and each one had 2-3 eggs plus a couple handfuls of cherry tomatoes. That was at 6:30 this morning. At 7:05, they walked 1.2 miles to the school/bus stop. Zoe’s lunch was at 11:00 and then—sorry, no afternoon snacks allowed—at 3:55, when the bus dropped her off she and Mattie walked the 1.2 miles home. Zoe is having a growth spurt, so after that, I wouldn’t at all be surprised if she used her cavegirl stick to actually kill something and eat it on the way home. Even worse for Skyler, she is at the Jr. High now and she has volleyball until 6:30pm. Skyler went to volleyball practice for two and a half hours after having a “lunch” that consisted of two chicken nuggets, ½ cup of canned peaches and some mushy, disgusting green beans that she wouldn’t even eat. Yeah, that will freaking fuel an athlete and girl about to hit puberty…arrgh.
This concludes my bitch session. Richard, thank you so much for allowing me to vent my frustration on this topic. If your readers have any suggestions for lunches or tips for keeping things hot/cold, I would really appreciate it!
Think she’s alone? Here, see these comments on the USDA’s own blog (courtesy David Brown)
…I know that most, especially long timers, will always understand how my rage works. For others, it’s always and will always be about them—even as they waste their hours trying to convince all y’all that I’m a detriment to the community at large. But, unfortunately, sane and essentially caring heads like Sadie sue’s will always, always prevail (the ones I really care about)—and I have zero fear and much amusement over what an evil celebrity I’ve become. Let it roll, grils. And, kisses. You give me good laughs almost everyday…to the point I’m sorely disappointed and my morning coffee tastes bad if I don’t have something new and salacious about myself to read. Consider my ego, please!
…I exchanged a few emails with Sadie sue in the runnup to all of this. Like this.
Glad you liked the letter format that I sent you. I tried to be brief and keep the language accessible, as I am obviously not qualified to have any sort of expert opinion other than having little kids. We cooked all day yesterday trying to get some of the lunches made that the girls will take this week. They “sampled” everything we decided on and I am pretty sure that they ate an entire week’s worth of Ms.-Obama-approved calories yesterday afternoon alone. (Take that, government control-freaks!)
BTW, pork chops marinated in raspberry vinaigrette and stuffed with cornbread and dried cherry stuffing are delicious!
I’ve always loathed the idea that a “First Lady” has any more than fuck all to say about your life—like, by virtue of a bigger mob of social masturbators (voters), they are somehow anointed in ways that diminish your on-the-ground efforts and reality in lieu of their political reality and promotion for the sake of adulation and power over you. For those who have the stomach for it, here, from 2007: Fuck Obama and His Stupid Bitch. Call me a misogynist if you like for the 100th time, but what do you wanna bet that Michelle’s innocent kids aren’t living the life of luxury and opulence at your expense (…just so you know: Fuck GWB and his stupid bitch, too; she ought to have stuck to honest work, like teaching kids). This ought not be taken as political in any sense. I don’t vote. Fuck ’em all.
Last. If you’re outraged about my characterization of “our leaders” (who the fuck needs one?) that was my intention because if you don’t find this even more outrageous, then I have nothing for you. From Sadie sue, yesterday afternoon. If you paid attention, she wrote how now she has to pack a lunch every day. Well….
Update on the lunch outrage: Salad chock full of homegrown veggies (beets, green beans, kohlrabi, carrots and broccoli on some store bought lettuce) topped with the meat from two grilled chicken drumsticks. Lunch monitor (scratch that) Overbearing, Control Freak, Lunch Nazi told the middle child she had too much meat and that isn’t allowed. Stay tuned. This could get ugly. [emphasis added]
Now it’s your turn. Just go ahead and complain that I called dear dear Michelle a Stupid Bitch. Go right ahead, because I can’t wait for it.
ladysadie1 
A.B. Dada 
A.B. Dada 
Elenor 
Saint Velvet 
Reading the comments on the USDA blog made me so very happy.
While I do not agree with many of them, the fact that almost universally they repressent challenges to authority, and demands of evidence based science.
Even better the demands just for government to fuck right off.
WOW. So glad my kids are now done school. Not sure how I would handle being told what and how much my kids could eat. I feel sorry for all the parents trying to deal with that. Good luck!
Auuuughhhh…. First No Child Left Untested.. now this..
And as a former Reno, now CA resident I’m sure you saw the Vegan for a Day article about Paddle Boarding around Tahoe..
Sadie sue, as heartened as I am to hear how well you’re (trying) to feed your kids, I hope your also giving them the mental half, and that none of your kids were traumatized by the Lunch Nazi. I had to teach myself how to think (my parents trusted the schools to do that), and as much as I hate the poor nutrition I had growing up I value my free mind much more.
Thanks, Andrew.
Rest assured, I am giving my kids the mental half as well. I teach them self reliance and the skills to go along with it.
As for food, they choose for themselves and, for the most part, not only prepare, but grow their own food. At this point, my input is minimal and the older two (especially the middle one) know enough technique and food science to create their own dishes. I know grown women that can barely boil water, so I am pretty proud of them! The girls even have a pretty good start on knowing how to forage for food and what the medicinal uses are for many herbs and wild plants.
They are also much more politically aware than most of the sheeple I deal with on a daily basis including being able to quote some of our founding fathers. We not only know about the Second Amendment, we actively use those rights.
I better shut up now, or I will end up on a list somewhere… ;) oops, probably too late for that.
Should bold face some of this^^^
I have plenty of single moms asking me how to get their kids to eat real food. I always say the same response: let them help pick out real food at the store, and let them help prep and cook.
Amazing how easy it is when they feel some ownership of the food.
Precisely. If yiu’ll follow the liks to the first FTA experience with Her Loveliness, that was a major theme, involve the kinds, in both prep and cleanup. They will better manage their urges and cravings if they have to do the work.
Bingo! Exactly the recipe for having children eat real food.
Echoing your exho, Dr Kadar. Thank you.
You’ll make a good Dad :)
Plan on it. Lots of little sociopathic rugrats to help rule the kingdom.
I see an uptick in home schooling about to happen. We may soon have neighborhood-based in home schools like in home day care as who would subject their kids to this regime? I see two or three mothers getting together to teach their combined children the things they need to learn to do well in today’s world including evaluating available foods and picking the ones with the most cost/benefit ratios.
What a wonderful idea to combine teaching talents from several moms. I bet it could even work if mothers “teachers” switch off every other day to allow one to get some work done or errands, etc.
Bravo!!! I salute all the moms who are determined that their kids will have a decent meal at school, even if we have to get up at 4 in the damn morning to make those suckers. Fuck Michelle Obama, dead off in her lard ASS.
And absolutely LOVE the group homeschool idea, too. Good luck, ladies. Warrior moms UNITE!!!
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“Bravo!!! I salute all the moms who are determined that their kids will have a decent meal at school, even if we have to get up at 4 in the damn morning to make those suckers. Fuck Michelle Obama, dead off in her lard ASS.”
Clap clap clap.
Yes but you thought armed feds charging onto a farm over milk was frightening?! Wait’ll they come charging into your neighborhood classroom and terrify the children!!
Sounds like a fantastic idea!
Richard, I know you don’t care, but you lose credibility in the eyes of some when you attack people for their ideas. Attack the ideas. The Food Pyramid is a bad idea. Building effectively enforcible national nutritional policy that violates the rights of regular people is a horrible idea. None of that makes any individual person a horrible person.
This would have been a much more compelling piece if you’d limited your attack to the school food programs and to the political system in general.
“..but you lose credibility in the eyes of some when you attack people for their ideas.”
Precisely my intention. Ideas come from individuals. They aren’t just magically out there. I mean to attack individuals. They are welcome to attack back. I’m ready.
“Attack the ideas.”
I have always and will always attack both, the ideas and the source of those ideas.
“None of that makes any individual person a horrible person.”
Horrible people exist. All four people running for the privilege of ruling you next qualify.
I delight in attacking them, and I delight in shaming the stupid who are looking for someone to rule or lead them.
I appreciate your perspective, but sensible people have bad ideas and fools the occasional good ones. If the idea is bad enough, attacking the person amounts to nothing more than piling on. :)
Also, bad systems make reasonable people do horrid things. See politics and religion for two obvious examples.
Finally, and most fortunately, the four people running for the privilege of ruling you don’t have the privilege of ruling me, at least not yet, although Stephen Harper appears to have “subjugate Canada more completely to US rule” at the top of his daily To Do list.
To blame Michelle Obama for the insanity of the McGovern-led group that propelled us into this mess in the first place… I’m not so sure that tracks.
I re-read my comment. I don’t like how it started, but I can’t edit it, so let me try this:
Richard, I agree with you that ideas come from people and that we do well to hold people accountable for their decisions.
Please read this in place of the smarmy and condescending “I appreciate your perspective”. I guess I pressed “Submit” before thinking long enough.
Don’t give it a thought, JB.
Cheers.
I call horseshit, JB. People with horrible ideas make up much of the political system and are responsible for the havoc they wreak, wholly and separately. It’s worse because they’re hiding behind the “system”, not better or somehow excusable.
I get you. Really, I do. I don’t agree with your analysis of the cause of the problem. It doesn’t take long for a system such as a large political or religious one to become its own organism, capable of swallowing up those in its path. Not all people who participate in those systems are victims. Many are. Possibly most. But not all. That’s just too unlikely.
I agree that hiding behind the system does not absolve one of responsibility, but the child who grows up Catholic because he had no choice isn’t entirely to blame for believing the insane things the system teaches him. :) In this way, politics seems to have a similar effect.
Let me add: I know that /people/ created that system in the first place. I also know that system dynamics being what it is, people are, on average, too stupid to control those systems once putting them into place. Since we can’t live without systems, blaming us for creating complex ones that we can’t control seems silly — blaming us for not trying to manage the outcomes, I totally get.
Serve the same menu in the senate cafeteria.
“Serve the same menu in the senate cafeteria.”
You hold your breath first.
Great idea, Rob! While we’re at it, make them live on my income and work the same hours I work.
Kinda like how smoking is banned inside every workplace except for the legislators in our state and federal capitals. Shows how connected those in power are to those they lead.
Chris, are you talking about the “Do as I say, not as I do.” attutude?
No, Richard’s right…
FUCK anyone who tells us what we can and can’t eat. period.
“No, Richard’s right…”
Only to peole who have a visceral reaction to a kid going hungry over the fact that I baited everyone by calling dear Michelle a bitch. Wanna guess what the first comment was on my FB page?
Bobbie Tornblom:
“First Bitch? Fuck you.”
I could have easily done this post without the addins, probably even gotten more cheerleading. I don’t operate that way. I purposely put bait up there and was not a bit surprised that it was taken even faster than it took the folks of decent good conscience to weigh in over starving kids. (now, wait for the arguments that they aren’t really starving, because Michelle is just so not a bitch)
Fuck Barak Obama, Fuck Mitt Romney and the only reason I call them bitches is because they act like it. I don’t think I ever called Hillary that and if somehow I ever did, she didn’t deserve it because she never played the role. I call her Der Commisar. She at leat has my respect in some areas, but then again, so does Hitler, Pol Pot, Stalin & Mao. Practicalities and what humans will swallow voluntarily matter. It matter in ways most people don’t thing about.
“FUCK anyone who tells us what we can and can’t eat. period.”
Man I have to stop saying “bitch, papa need food (grunt grunt)” when I ask my beloveds for dinner.
Now they’re in bad company.
Thanks for ruining a solid term of endearment,
Alright, I’ll have to give Laf over that. That’s only because you’re misogynist^2 compared to me. :)
Thanks. Can I call you “shield”
BTW, Dada, do you ever get the impression that you’re labelled a women hater because you love them so damn much?
I do love feminine women. I’m absolutely bonkers over ever part of them. It’s insane how awesome a feminine and demure woman is in my life, and I’ll take one over a supermodel any day of the week, even Fridays.
My biggest detractors online always end up my closest friends when they experience what I mean by “taming the hamster” — and sex is not (usually) involved. A man who leads by testosterone is a man respected by all by the most hormonally-challenged women and other men.
It just doesn’t vibe well online. I need a TV show, ASAP. Or you need one and I can be your color commentary.
I think “shield” is a perfect nickname. Me likey.
I used to tell women to call me captain. No more.
“A man who leads by testosterone is a man respected by all but the most hormonally-challenged women and other men.”
Welcome to my juxtaposed world, lately. Then again, I’ve always said I want love or hate, indifference is really annoying.
I paraphrase this as “90% truly hate the character I play, 10% absolutely adore the man I am. This is better than being ignored by most if not all.”
I’m an absolutist. The world is black or white. If you see grey, zoom in closer, it’s all black and white pixels at the most detailed level.
I used to think like that. Then I grew up. And got wiser.
Absolutism is for those who chose to be mentally lazy. It takes intellectual courage and energy to examine nuance.
And you are wrong about what makes gray in a pixel (raster) based image. There are shades of gray.
“But what will Sadie do when it turns out she’s sexually worthless and no worthy m an would marry her because she is over 30, has 3 children, and works for a living giving her “masculine talents”?”
Yikes, Wooo. If I didn’t see the validity in your statement or understand the context, I would probably be highly offended. The only thing that I taek exception to is the “sexually worthless” reference. I assure you that isn’t the case, unless your only intention was to point out that I do not wish to have more offspring.
Woo: no woman with progesterone-balanced feminine qualities is worthless, she may just be worth less in the sexual marketplace. She will want a high status man but may not be able to pay for the highest status men. Big difference. Sadie will do fine. I’ve helped some grandmothers in their 60s find great guys after becoming widowers themselves. Only the feminist-Marxist are of no value beyond a pump and dump.
I don’t sexually revile wayward dames. I dated a 19 year old not too long ago — a high status one with a full ride degree angle and a guaranteed six figure job at 21. I broke up with her gently, realizing I would trigger her reward centers too strongly and spoil her for a future husband
My lovers were typically high status powerful women who are in boring marriages or relationships. The man behind the curtain, ready for a weekend in Majorca when beckoned. These women had what they needed from a domestic partner, but their strong hypergamy meant they needed their hamsters calmed irregularly. I saved those relationships by enabling infidelity. I don’t feel a lick of guilt. Needs were met across the board.
I am not money driven. Of my income, 80% goes to high risk startups where the profits flow to my partners, not me. I like the risky portion of kick starting a small business. When it succeeds, I request a buy out and use the funds on a new venture with new people. Money does not control me, ever. My businesses are also community driven, providing charity for locals in need: free resumes for the unemployed, economic consulting for the poor, real food delivery for those unable to regularly get to farmers markets, etc. I pay for those out of my profit share, never my partners’ profits.
I hire unemployed alcoholics and help them on the wagon and build skills. I have a dozen such success stories just since 2004.
I don’t need to be a successful online guru. I don’t need the income. I just like stealing men from the World’s societies and governments and helping them steal their families away. The secret to anarchism is to withdraw. Call me John Galt, if you will. My profit is from seeing tight knit societies exist next door to schlubs, but hidden. That’s my goal.
No woman who is invited into my bed is tricked there. I never have drunk sex, not even in a long term relationship. No drugs. No promises. No PUA tactics. I don’t pick up women in bars, never have. I don’t do one night stands, never have. I use condoms, always. I get tested and request my lovers do the same.
You don’t know me, and you never will, because you don’t fit the definition of what I want in my ever-growing inner circle.
Psychopath? Hardly. Sociopath? I took those psych tests twice, and never showed an inkling of sociopathy.
I do have Hyperthymic Temperament, diagnosed. Google it. That’s me, to a T. In simple terms: I can’t be depressed, hormonally, so I just work at euthymia if possible.
Sadly, FDR as mentioned in this post, also had Hyperthymic temperament: http://www.nytimes.com/2011/08/02/opinion/maybe-washington-needs-more-craziness.html?pagewanted=all
May I be as loved and hated as he.
I won’t marry, period. Domestic partnership incorporated in legal means is all.
And I’m no hypocrite: my warnings are to young women and slightly older men. Biological imperatives are very strong. We are mammals, as such we are easily swayed by our biology. If one is young, one can maximize their life’s happiness by expressing their biology as suited.
If one is old, one can maximize their SMV by understanding their biological functions and the needs they can still provide for others.
Of course, you’re a useless cunt. That’s not an ad hominem, it’s just a truthful label. A useful cunt is a woman who is worth only a pump and dumb, you don’t even offer that usefulness. Bad combo.
Endocrinological studies have been harmed by the politically correct (and political) NIH. The same assholes who furthered and distributed other scientific research into heart healthy grains and the safety of corn syrup sweeteners. I trust N=1 anecdotes more because I see them working.
Those who follow neogamy seems to be very unhappy. 60%+ divorce rates. Even higher percentages of adults who feel trapped and live their one life in regret and guilt and frustration.
I have hundreds of wives on my Facebook who traded neogamy for paleogamy of sorts and admit they’re happier, healthier, more sexual, more submissive, more in love. Hundreds of N=1 anecdotes.
I have dozens of women consulting with me, right now. They’re mostly high status, overeducated. I tell them to act demure, fake it if need be. They respond: we’re happier doing this! We’re happier submissive! We’re happier scrubbing tubs than sitting in cubicles! We’re happier cooking a great dinner than working 8 hour meetings.
N=1 x 100s anecdotes prove my point.
If you want to trust NIH funded and distributed research, go for it. Your body is wrecked permanently from years of following the USDA. Your thyroid went with it. There is nothing for me to offer you, I would refuse if asked; I would refund if paid.
But I can use you as an example. I plan to.
I don’t buy women I date dinner until they’ve cooked for me twice from scratch without me asking or suggesting.
I don’t spend money on women, not a dollar, until they’ve proven they’re long term worthy, and then I make them pay part of their way.
I tend to date educated but not overeducated women. I prefer suburban or rural as they have less reward issues, in my experience.
In the past 5 years, I only dated two women who consumed alcohol. Both ended up boring me. In 10 years I only dated one gal with bipolar issues, I usually flag those within a half hour of meeting.
I live on well less than one would think — my homes internationally combine live/work buildouts. I welcome anyone here to visit me in Chicago, Lauderdale, Gdańsk, Mumbai, Strausbourg or Houston — my usual homes, and see how I do it on the cheap. I spend very little of my income on living, because I own almost nothing that requires maintenance.
I bought my first TV in 10 years last week. I have nothing to watch on it — no cable, no DVD player.
No credit cards, no mortgage, no loans. No degree, not even a GED high school equivalency.
As I said above, I have Hyperthymic temperament, so I’m stuck in happy mode regardless of the situation. 90% hate me, 10% love me, very very few are indifferent.
I wouldn’t ask for any other way. Doors open ever day, I walk through them.
People with HT aren’t sociopaths, we fail the criteria.
You’re a tool, Woo. You obviously know nothing.
Sociopathy is diagnosed in the DSM-IV as a pattern of disregard of the rights of others. Im on my iPad so I can’t look it up or quote it.
I encourage individual rights, I denounce groupthink. That’s no sociopathy.
I encourage individual powers and spend hundreds of hours a year, pro bono, helping the indigent find a trade skills. All the homeless in my neighborhoods know me and work for me — washing windows, polishing floors, cleaning machinery, etc.
I don’t need to defend myself to you, it’s my frame here, not yours.
But it is important to smack you down and show others the insanity of a woman who can’t secure and get commitment from a masculine man and the cock that would cure her insanity temporarily. A good hard slam of oxytocin would do you wonders for an evening or weekend, I just can’t lower myself to that level. Nightmares and all.
Sociopaths violate rights of others. Hyperthymics are enjoyed by others, create equals out of followers, and are very generous and happy to share. For every one guy paying me $290 an hour, I help dozens of guys for free.
I don’t help useless tools. May others learn from your poverty of life, Wooo. May you help redeem other women who are nearing the same mistakes you made that lead you to be a weak and useless mound of flesh.
:-) AB – I don’t know if I would date you if I were single and young with no kids under 40, etc., because I’m a thinker and watcher and I’d realize that you would not commit the way I wanted someone to commit in a relationship (I would most likely be one those you became bored with anyway), but I think you’d be a super awesome guy to hang out with (do you have girl friends?). See, you could lead by example on how to be spontaneous and free-willed since I am typically uptight and scheduled with very low rewards needs – except that I do love cabernet.
I usually stay away from the male-female relationship discussions most of the time because I have never ever had any problem in that department, it is like I don’t read any discussions about how to cure diarrhea because I just don’t have it. For a guy who is completely fine, you talk too much, too concentrated on talking about your women education, like there is something troubling you but you want to cast a positive impression. My female instincts scream “RED FLAG” and “A creep alert”.
I am slightly over 50 right now, experienced several relationships and in a second marriage right now. I yet to experience a pain of rejection, no one in my whole life ever dumped me. Most guys who I left still on a friendly terms with me. I have a decent education (Masters in a Technical field), talented in a cooking, not a great beauty, but people say I look very feminine, and I am very perceptive of how people around me feel and what they think. I don’t know you in a real life, of course, but from your posts you don’t look attractive at all, I wouldn’t be interested in somebody like you if I were looking for a mate right now. You are very cold emotionally, emotionnally disconnected with people, inside very self-centered and calculating. Not a great companion, but can fake it. I guess it is you problem, you don’t love, you posses and enjoy your possessions for a time being. It feels like you look at people not like there are personalities, but some lego-set of personal characteristics, they are your collection, your toys you play with them for a while and let them play with yourself for a while. From looking around I can tell there are so many troubled women around with masochistic inclinations who easily became a pray to guys with a cold heart and after being played with became even less sure of themselves and more damaged emotionally after people like you used them as a tool to scratch their ego and to stimulate their genitalia. Probably, it is not your fault to be the way you are, it is your nature. You can’t fall in love, like somebody can’t appreciate music or art. Because you can’t feel, you can fake right relationship even better because emotions don’t interfere with calculations. You wouldn’t get anyone like me , who is sure of herself and was always interested in companionship and a mutual human interest.
I think that may be it, Galina, we’re older and wiser and do not easily fall prey (or have at least learned along the way to intuitively know there may be danger). Hopefully, AB is not leading younger, more vulnerable girls into areas they do not understand. At least he’s honest up front so that we may take him or leave him. but, like I said before, we are not his dating type anyway.
I would love to hang with you as well and eat some of your delicious-sounding soup! Me being Polish, you can bring on the sour cream!! Are you on the east coast or west coast of FL? Me – west.
I live on the North East, I would like to serve you some soup for sure. My favorite summer soup is made with beets .
I am off dating game for sure, it is just I wanted to say something because rarely somebodies comments gave me so much intuitive alert of things being wrong like what that guy was saying. Unfortunately,it is often the case young girls are attracted to “bad boys” who knows how to make pore bitches to jump through hoops. Life is not always easy on people.